This blog is from Chris, the proud foster mom of Lazarus. Today is Valentine's day and I must express how our hearts are over flowing, bursting at the seams with the love Lazarus has brought into our lives. He was terrified of affection when he came into our lives just 5 short days ago. He trusted no one, was confused and scared. Our hearts broke for him as we realized the effects of his tragic past and watching him try to make sense of this confusing, new environment. We wanted to show him he was safe and it was ok for him trust but he had to figure out these things on his own. The confusion and fear in his beautiful eyes was so sad but he always had a spark of curiousness that kept him from shutting down completely. We encouraged the curiousness at first by greatly rewarding him with soft, kind words and treats, then built on it with joyful praise, ear rubs, body rubs which he now welcomes.
He has made great strides! Just this morning he came out of his crate with a delightful case of the zoomies!! Round and round the house he went butt scooting as fast as he could then he grabbed a toy and flipped onto his back and wiggled with glee! I was overjoyed. This afternoon he flipped on his back right in front of me (a very vulnerable position for a dog) and let me give him a proper belly rub, I even found his tickly spot.
These steps he's taken have shown us what faith and trust can allow you to do in a safe and loving environment. To see him blossom in front of our eyes is better than any valentine rose ever given. For him to allow me to gently rub his soft, warm fur and hold his sweet, smooshy face in my hands is better than any box of chocolates ever received.
My heart is overflowing with compassion and love for Lazarus on this very special Valentine's day. As my husband and I share a pizza tonight we will gaze in awe-filled, loving amazement at the best Valentine's gift we have ever received, his name is Lazarus and he is a perfect example of the power of love. I cannot wait to tell potential adopters all about this special boy, and watch as he changes their lives too.
Chris
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